O_o ---------------> I Almost caused me to slap them through my laptop.
But no shade towards peeps with babies before marriage, or for those engaging in sex before marriage. But I'm just personally not about that life. I'm ready to do it, but it's not my time, until I'm married. I've had my chances and times to do it, but either God intervened, I got scared, or simply just didn't want too. It's about choosing Christ over your flesh. I can't even afford to buy the simple cheap things in life! Babies cost as much as car Lol... That really blew my life away for like 5 seconds.
Just because my hips, back & front side are highly blessed, doesn't mean I had "help". Like seriously..... She explained to me how I'm missing out on life. How sex is a great past time, how it's a great way to lose weight....and so on and so forth. It was stated that, I should have sex with my court mate so I can know what to expect on my wedding night. I honestly can't wait to unwrap that gift for me & my future husband. I won't have anyone to compare him too! I won't know what to expect! It'll all be a new exciting adventure to legally be on! It grinds my gears & breaks my heart because she's a believer, and we ALL fall short. But some use that as an excuse. It gets old to me personally. I'm doing this thing where...when God tells me something I listen, and act upon what he's directing me to do. They call it: Obedience. I'm trying this thing called...showing love even when it hurts! Trust me it hurts to love some people these days. But Christ loved the people who spit in his face back in the day & if we're suppose to be Jesus with skin on.... I should love them too right? Even the ones who try to feed foolishness into my life. All I can do is pray for my dear associate.
Bottom Line: We all have to do better. Stop making excuses, and justifying our sin. Acknowledge your wrong doing, Get in God's face, seek accountability, and maybe...just maybe do better on purpose! We're born into sin, but as a Christian we're not sinless, but we are suppose to sin less, and seek accountability. I want my heart to break for what breaks Gods. I want to make him smile! I desire to be a Proverbs 31 woman. I won't get it 100%...100% of the time...but isn't it worth a try!? Just my thoughts.
